Welcome To
the Modern
Charm SchoolTM

A private online social club dedicated to high-achieving women who want to learn more about style, generating wealth, leadership, and leaving a legacy

We do STYLE.
We create WEALTH.
We lead with GUMPTION.
We leave LEGACIES.

Our Mission & Vision

We envision a world where women can earn more, take initiative, show courage, be determined, and leave a legacy all while stylishly dressed.

Legacy builders write their own personal stories, rewrite their families' stories, and change the direction of an entire generation.

This is the world we want to create and live in.

Which is why we created the four pillars of Modern Charm: Style, Wealth, Gumption, & Legacy.

The Four Pillars Inside of Modern Charm School TM


Style is the first floor of the Modern Charm School. We teach you to get dressed and ready to face the world outside of your closet. The style tools we teach apply to every pillar in an interconnected way.


When you allow yourself to show up as yourself with your style, that confidence transfers to financial literacy, wealth building, and your unique version of a luxe life.


The woman who owns her style and lives her luxe life has a secret ingredient: gumption. Gumption is a beautiful blend of initiative, determination, and courage. Learn to cultivate all three.


When you show up feeling like yourself, living your version of a luxe life, you model Gumption for all of the women around you. You rewrite your story and change the history of the women who come after you.

the motto


At The Modern Charm School we believe in updating traditional charm school subjects so that they reflect the hearts, minds, and desires of modern high-achieving women.

We believe:

Beauty is for all women of every size, shape, color, and age.

Elocution is about how to advocate for yourself and those around you

Poise is rising up and standing tall in the face of adversity

Pluck and Gumption is about leading with initiative, determination, and courage

Style is personal and a conduit to the heart and mind of each woman

details & exclusive member benefits

Action-Packed Workshops

Imagine stepping into a room filled with smart, stylish, and successful women all working towards their goals. The workshops are LIVE and interactive. No pre-recording here. We teach you a concept, you take immediate action, and Judith is there to answer your questions in real time.

Our workshops are carefully curated to help our members reach their full potential in all areas of their lives. From mastering the art of networking to building a timeless wardrobe, our workshops cover a wide range of topics designed to empower and inspire. All workshops are recorded. We love you #teamreplay.

Mentoring & Coaching Calls

What if you could really just phone a friend? Need help with what to say during that upcoming meeting, how to navigate an awkaward family encounter, or what to wear to your next speaking gig? We’ve got you.

Each week we have mentoring and coaching calls. These calls help you keep the momentum and accountability. You’ll receive personalized advice on everything from style to leadership. You’ll have the opportunity to connect with other high-achieving women, share your experiences, and learn from their successes.

We are a community of doers and builders on a mission to change generational stories. We don’t consume information. We get to work.

Size Inclusive Capsule Wardrobe Collections

Picture this: each month, you get a brand new capsule wardrobe collection that’s carefully curated by yours truly. It’s like having your own personal stylist, but without the hefty price tag. Plus, it’s so fun to mix and match the pieces to create endless outfit options that make you feel like a million bucks.

And here’s the best part: you can access all of this goodness from the comfort of your own home. No need to spend hours wandering around the mall or digging through piles of clothes at thrift stores. Just log in to your membership account and voila! Whether you are Petite, Plus, or Mid sized, we’ve got you. Your new wardrobe is right at your fingertips.

Plus Size Capsule Wardrobe
Plus Size Capsule Wardrobe
The May Sping Chic Collection
Mid Size Capsule Wardrobe
Mid Size Capsule Wardrobe
The May Sping Chic Collection


As a high-achieving woman, you’re always on the go, and we get it.  You’re in the carpool line, in airports off on adventures, in the gym, commuting, writing patient notes, etc… A community of doers is on the move. That’s why we’ve created a private podcast just for our members, so you can take your learning with you wherever you are. Imagine being able to listen to our expert coaches wherever you are. (And you can listen on 2x speed. Haha!) With weekly episodes covering everything from style tips to networking strategies, you’ll be ready to tackle any situation with poise and grace.


Intentional Intelligent Entertainment

That is the heart and mission behind Modern Charm Tv. It is so easy to go down the tik-tok rabbit hole or doom scroll endlessly… it kind of feels productive.

Instead, we wanted to create something for all of you. Something both entertaining and intellectually stimulating, charming yet subversive. A place to retreat to that keeps you in this world of Modern Charm TM

Enter… Modern Charm TV, intentional and intelligent entertainment. From bring the hostess to the mostest to how to dress for that themed party, we’ve got you covered.

exclusive membership available


$ 247 Per Quarter

2 Months Free ANNUAL

$ 997 Per Year (save $194!)

When you join, you Also get immediate Access to all of the Past Workshops

Style & Bra Workshops

Waiting on the other side of the Modern Charm School curtain are the Spring Style Workshop, Fall Trends Workshop, and The Bra Workshop.

All the stuff the smart cookies weren't told about style, body image, and BRAS! It is all waiting for you inside. We use the Modern Charm School TM Makeover Method to make style simple & doable. These interactive workshops have you doing much more than flipping through pinterest images or scrolling instagram for inspiration. We teach you the basics and you go take action.


Behind every high-achieving woman is… a pile of important shit waiting to be done. Documents to be sorted, clothes to be donated, and an inbox of full of spam to be deleted.
A virtual workshop dedicated to decluttering, deleting, and de-janking. Make space to create and go after your Gumption-Filled Goals.

Glam Camp

"Well behaved women seldom make history." - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich.

So let's make history together.

This 2 Day virtual event took place in January 2023. It was a game changer. We covered everything from: Real Estate Investment 101, Diamonds 101, Red Lipstick to Owning the Room and How to Overcome Imposter Phenomenon.

It is where high-achieving women learn to own the room so they can confidently build legacies. You are allowed to be the Beauty & the Brains. Let’s design a life where the outsides match the incredibly rich life you live on the inside.

Goal Setting Palooza

Whether you are team “always moving the goal post” or team “give up in a fit of overwhelming perfectionism,” we’ve got you. Learn how to set goals without the procrastination, overwhelm, or perfectionism.

hi i'm judith gaton

about me

I craved more than the usual conversations about style and wealth, so I created a space for women like me AND YOU.

I am a smart cookie (Doctorate, Master Certifications, Author, Fashion Design Degree…) My clients are smart cookies. They are diverse, hilarious, and are so much more than fruit shapes. (You are not a damn apple or pear!)

That’s why I created Modern Charm School. So the smart cookies could talk about style in an elevated way, AND about the things that really matter like building a legacy and having more than enough.

That is how the FOUR pillars came to be.

It was important to me that Modern Charm School have a framework that lead with style, but was so much more. In the words of my client, Dr. Matthea “It’s women that are trying to achieve bigger things and frumpy is holding them back. …This is the room where you are doing bigger things and you need to figure out the Style Part.

So here is to all of our Stylish beginnings… Join us.

here's what it's like to work with Judith

frequently asked questions

Yay! We love memberships. Modern Charm School is unlike any other membership. We actually deliver shoppable inspiration boards to our members monthly. We don’t just talk about style. WE DO STYLE.

We also have an approach unlike any other in that we are focused on substantive issues like wealth, financial literacy, and creating legacy. Our focus extends far beyond aesthetics. We want our members to feel dressed to face the world outside, knowledgeable enough to live their luxe life, fueled with tools to lead with gumption, so they can leave legacies. Nobody does what we do in the way that we do it. Join us. It’s pretty f*ckin amazing.

The regular price is $97/month and $997 for Annual membership. Annual members get the gift of 2 months of coaching for free.

We hope every student is satisfied during their time with us. However, because of the nature of memberships and the amount of time, love, effort, and energy that goes into our content, we don’t offer refunds. In short, we have a no refund policy. Nor do we offer pro rata refunds. I like to put this type of information upfront and in bold so we both understand.

If there is anything you believe we could improve, email at coach@judithgaton.com.

Life happens. We get it. If you wish to cancel, you may do so at anytime by emailing Coach@judithgaton.com or canceling your membership through Kajabi. You will have access to all materials until the end of the month of your cancellation. We do not offer refunds for past months within the membership.

Style Masterclass is the name of my podcast and my 8-Week Style & Coaching Program. Style Masterclass is for the high-achieving woman who wants to solidify her wardrobe in 8 weeks or less.  It is a high-touch white glove intimate group coaching experience.

Modern Charm School is for the style curious, who want a do-it-yourself, self-guided experience.